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Live the moment - A Happiness Mantra

The world is full of surprises and of course, shocks. We are put in situations where we forget to smile and frown becomes a permanent part of our face and life. But then, too much of anything does not make life interesting. Life is a mixture of all things, smile, tear, anger, success, frustrations and many more. Life has not been fair to me and it always vice versa also. I was also not smart enough to understand or accept life.
But change is the only thing constant in life. And growth happens whether we like it or not. Growth is generally all rounded, emotionally, physically and also spiritually. A yoga class made a change in my life. It was unexpected and strange. The change was refreshing and gave me different perspective of life. They taught me the most valuable lesson of my life
Live the moment is my new mantra. Every minute of our life is unpredictable. Nothing is permanent in our life. Neither smile nor tear is permanent. Nothing actually lasts. But that does not mean we can’t live life. When we start to cherish and relish each and every minute of our life. We have mastered the trick. It sounds simple. And it is not simple or difficult.
We don’t have control over a lot of things happening in our life. Then why do we spend energy and time worrying about things we can’t change. Everything happens for a reason. And even if we don’t have a reason, it does not matter. Tear is also a vital part of life. We forgot this and ultimately destroy the most important part of our life. We lose our life. We get drowned in the moment of sadness and forget to live life herself.
Happiness is something we search everywhere. We try different means to find her. Yet we get disappointed and lost in the process. I have moved heaven and hell to find her. Even Google don’t seem to have an answer for it. I realized that the only person who can make me happy irrespective of the situation I am in is me.  That does not mean I don’t have friends.
 I have found the shortcut to happiness, Acceptance. I have learned to accept the things happening to me. I don’t like most things happening to me. I have learned to just accept it just like the things I love. Every emotion is a part of me. We don’t question the smile, then why grumble about the gloom. Accept every emotion and learn to enjoy it. I don’t control the way I feel. I don’t give the control to my emotions. Every success and failure is a part of me and I just live the moment. I am not successful in it and let my emotions control me at times. Yet something is better than nothing. I keep trying and smiling
Happiness is everywhere. We just have to accept it. A chocolate, cold coke, A joke, Even 5 minutes of half sleep between stressful work , watching video  with friends and in a lot of things give us happiness. But we spend a lot of time thinking about lost things and forget to live life. Let’s live the moment for a change and be happy.


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