Optimism is not only a vital part of our
life. It also forms the basis of our being. It is something which is equally
important as oxygen. Sometimes do not understand the importance of optimism. Life
has a lot of unexpected turns and twist. Sometimes these turns are not exciting
and pleasing as always. Life’s base rule always has been except the unexpected.
Optimism is like two sides of a coin. The
good news is that optimism is generated internally and we always have a reserve
of positivity in us. Except a few pessimists, all of us are programmed to be
optimists. We are always trained to see the positive side of life. We try to
move on with whatever life throws at us. The bad news is that positivity does not
always spring up when needed. There are points in life when we feel lost and
scared. We reach a place where all ways seem blocked. We need an external
factor to boost us up. Just that the size of the boost up differs based on the
situation we are in.
Sometimes a chocolate is more than
enough to make a day. Chocolate has always been special to me. She lifts up my
spirit and makes me strong. The myth is as chocolate melts so does our
problems. It might sound stupid. But that’s was chocolate means to be me. I
have always craved for her whenever I am depressed and down. I am of the
opinion that few kilograms in your body are sometimes better than a few pounds
in your heart. It is true that have I have gained a few kilograms. But it has
helped me battle so many depressions in life.
Sometimes surfing also helps. Window
shopping in my favorite sites like flipkart, jabong, etc. One of my favorite
sites is Housing where I get different
options for places to stay. Surfing clears my head and helps me understand the
problem better.
Sometimes we need something bigger than
chocolate. I was in a full on depression due to a lost relationship. I felt I
was on the end of the world and life was not taking me anywhere. A friend, who
I was not very close, wanted to meet me and I reluctantly agreed. Within
minutes of meeting, I started to ramble. I am not in the rambling just to
anyone. I felt like talking only because the person warm and could feel a
lot of positive vibes
After an hour or so, I felt light and better. I never knew an
hour of talking who make me feel so better. It gave me a new friend and a lighter
heart. I felt a major change in me. Sometimes people don’t realize or intent to
lend a helping hand. Yet it just happens. Maybe it is way God has planned it.
It makes us feel loved and fills your life with hope and optimism. Strange
things happen, Even if life does not happen to be in the way we want. Still
there is always light in the end of the dark path.
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