Space

The complication and confusion of any relationship begin with this word. The word technically means the gap. It means absolutely nothing.But it can make or break a relationship. Every relationship needs the right amount of space. The quantity differs and determines the success of every relationship. I was never smart to understand the nuances of it. How I show that I care and still not bother them every hour or so? How do I tell a person that they are suffocating me without hurting their emotions? I never knew. Sometimes it is so complicated that I just let it go. Even parents have a difficult time understanding it and pamper or ignore the children. God is not an exception to this game. He sometimes blesses you in abundance or just lets you fend on your own. I just wish I had a guide to this universal drama. Still, It is just luck and common sense. Even instincts fail. Even as I work hard to make it happen. The ultimate question always remains, Is it really worth it?