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Happily Ever After?

Every movie I watched ended with happily ever after. Every book I read ended in the same way. The story spoke in volumes about the struggle of the man and woman before marriage. But does happily ever after mean that they would like happily. Do they actually find happiness in the pursuit of life. Even if they find it, what do they lose in the process. Is the real before or after marriage. Everything pictured the struggle before marriage. Yes the perks and benefits are attractive. What about the real life? What is the perk in it. We strive hard to live a life, sometimes for the lie we have fought for. The reality is very different from the things we perceive it to be. Most of us do not have the courage to show our real face when we get into a relationship. Even if it happen, we tweak it along the way to make the relationship work. After a point of time, frustration sets in or the cast is broken. The better half does not actually like the real person. They imagine and perceive the other half based on their dreams and expectations. When this fails, the relationship fails.

Most times, we are not communicative in the relationships. We avoid problems as much as we can just to save the day or to stop problems from reoccurring. We lose our peace of mind and life in the process. Even when acceptance is the key, We opt for the try to change for you mode to make the relationship work. We end accepting the fate or try to break hurting both in the process. I always wondered the meaning of Happily Ever After? Are they really happy or does the world turn blind to their sorrows. Only time will tell

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